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Coree Brown Swan's avatar

My 5 year old and I concluded a (lovely) trip to Lisbon sitting in the hotel room not speaking to each other. We had been to the aquarium and then spent the afternoon swimming in the hotel's rooftop pool (all the people working on their tans did not appreciate our pretending to be sharks).

We had an argument over taking a shower and my failure to pack toys for the single day we were in the hotel "What kind of parent doesn't pack TOYS?!"

When grandma and papa dropped off our dinner, they found us lying on the bed listening to an audiobook, pointedly ignoring each other.

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Sara Eatherton-Goff's avatar

"This is the kind of travel I really relish: settling in, feigning real life." Exactly. I'm right there with you.

I'm Autistic (not sure if that's exactly why, though): Travel is a nightmare, but I still want all the time. I need to stay in a place for a week or longer to actually enjoy any trip. The idea of a cruise makes me want to vomit. Way too much stimuli....

Traveling with kids just adds beefy layers of difficulty to any excursion. It probably doesn't help that my almost-two-teens and pre-teen are all neurodivergent, but traveling with them takes "nightmare" to the next level. They *can't* be away from home for longer than 2-3 days without having earth-shattering meltdowns that not only cost us tons of fruitless money, but leaves us all exhausted and needing to recover for sometimes weeks after any jaunt.

I love reading your posts, vicariously traveling through your beautifully relayed experiences. Between you and a friend on a two-year digital nomad journey, I get to feel like I'm somewhere else for a few minutes each week. Then, my brain gets inspired to take me back to all my pre-kids travel, and how much "easier" life seemed back then. Although I wouldn't change or exchange my complex life and children for anything, it's still nice to get that mental escape every so often.

Thanks for these posts. They're such a gift. 💝

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